Penetrative sex is not the ultimate goal to have satisfaction

Penetrative sex is not the ultimate goal to have satisfaction

Sex is not one singular act and there is no hierarchy to any of it. It all comes down to how you like to get your rocks off. Statistically speaking, penetrative sex, or P-in-V intercourse, isn’t even the most pleasurable sexual act. In fact, of women and people with vaginas, only 18.4 percent can orgasm from penetration alone. So, if you’re feeling insecure about your partner not reaching climax from penetrative sex, then don’t be disheartened. Penis size, big or small, doesn’t guarantee a fantastic shag.

Pauline Ryeland, a sex and intimacy coach, tells Mashable that when it comes down to sex, intimacy and feeling connected is paramount. «It’s more about your connection with the person,» Ryeland says. «If there was no heart connection, and you’re just having sex for the sake of having sex, well, then there’s going to be a lot of other things that aren’t going to be ticking boxes. Continue reading «Penetrative sex is not the ultimate goal to have satisfaction»